Maintaining Healthy Relationship through Forgiveness

It’s not easy to forgive others from the heart when they have hurt us repeatedly, but the truth is, we too have hurt others from time to time. We can either hold on to our hurt and seek  anger and become bitter and  resentful or we can embrace forgiveness and move forward by letting go of bitterness and hostility and forgiving them from the heart and being reconciling to them. Continue reading

Why do we HATE?

Most of us would like to put an end to all kinds’ of hatred.  We should all learn to get over our hatred and stop being mad at everyone all the time, because life is short. Enjoy your life while you can because you only get one of them. Why waste time being angry, upset, or hostile to other people.

Just because we don’t like the other person’s gesture, behaviour, habit or anything that counters our policies doesn’t give us the right to hate them.  Some people say that they don’t hate anything, but of course, that would be a lie. We all have hate; it is an emotion that we are all born with and we must work to overcome it every day. If left unchecked, this emotion turns into behaviour: Prejudice, Violence, etc. And in fact, all behaviours can be modified, as they are learned, not innate. Continue reading

Avoid Arguments, Quarrels and Disagreements

We don’t live in a perfect world or perfect  relationships with each other, therefore Arguments, Quarrels and Disagreements happen amongst us. An argument happens when two or more people try to defend or uphold their ideas, values, beliefs or principles. Sometimes, an issue does not warrant a debate but there are people who are confrontational in nature and want to argue and dispute about everything.  Continue reading